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Confidence Isn’t a Crown You Wear, It’s a Badge Branded on Your Soul
I’ve been thinking about confidence: how it finds us, how we hold it, how it grows deep in our bones over time. The thought started in a work context, but the echoes of it rang louder. Across every boardroom, every bedroom, every battlefield where a woman dared to take up space, I felt it vibrating.…
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Unlearning the Mirror: A Guide to Breaking Free from Internalized Misogyny
Let’s cut to the chase. You weren’t born hating other women. You weren’t born hating yourself. But the world taught you how. Silently. Systematically. And worst of all, convincingly. This is internalized misogyny.It’s the poisoned voice in your head that whispers: Sound familiar? That’s not your voice.That’s the echo of a system built to make…
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Reforging BDSM as a Domme: A Manifesto of Sovereign Power
The world of BDSM holds a seductive promise: a space to explore desire, identity, power, and connection without the constraints of the vanilla world. For many of us, especially those who’ve lived lives defined by the need to be small, palatable, or pleasing. Kink can feel like liberation. A homecoming. A resurrection. But here’s the…
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Fear, Feminism, and the Razor’s Edge: Holding Fear Without Falling into Misandry
I am a feminist. I believe in equity. In justice. In dismantling systems built on the bones of the oppressed.And I am afraid of men. There it is. Raw. Undeniable. I carry this fear not because I want to, but because I was taught to. Because I’ve lived too many moments where my safety, my…
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Leaning Into Social Activism Through Matriarchal Methods
The fight for justice, equity, and systemic change is an ongoing battle, and while patriarchal structures have long dictated the framework for activism, we have a powerful, alternative model that has always existed—matriarchal activism. This approach, rooted in collaboration, nurturing resilience, and intergenerational wisdom, allows us to reclaim activism in a way that dismantles oppressive…
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Creating Matriarchies
The Feminist Reclamation: Creating Matriarchies and Sisterhoods in Our Communities In the face of rising anti-female, anti-LGBTQIA, and anti-immigrant policies, it has become crucial to explore ways to resist and reclaim power in our communities. A powerful framework for this reclamation lies in the formation of matriarchies—community-led systems grounded in care, equity, and sisterhood. By…
The Feminist Reclamation 